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| Tuesday, 9-Sep-2008 05:27 |
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[size=18][b]Ramdhan Kareem..[/b][/size]
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Salam Ramadhan buat semua... Moga ramadhan kali ni bawa keinsafan dalam diri kita..
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| Wednesday, 25-Jun-2008 01:22 |
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Sharing Info..Antara Istikharah & Istisyarah
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"Personally saya rasa artikel ni betul-betul bermanfaat... untuk saya n anda semua dalam memilih pasangan atau apa sahaja perkara dalam hidup  .." (Goodies4wedding)
Antara Istikharah dan Istisyarah...
Seorang sahabat saya bertanya,
"Kalau kita dapat petunjuk dalam mimpi selepas solat Istikharah, tapi mimpi tu bertentangan dengan keputusan kita, wajib ke kita ikut apa-apa yang kita dapat dalam mimpi tu?"
Persoalan di sini ialah hukum ikut petunjuk dalam mimpi yang kita dapat selepas solat Istikharah.
Sebelum dihurai lebih lanjut, berikut adalah definisi Istikharah & Istisyarah. 'Istisyarah' bermaksud 'meminta pandangan', contohnya meminta pandangan daripada rakan, ibu bapa atau guru.
Istikharah pula bermaksud 'meminta petunjuk'. Akan tetapi Solat Istikharah bukan dilakukan untuk mendapat mimpi atau sebagainya. Menurut An-Nawawi,
"...selepas Solat Istikharah, dia mesti lakukan perkara yang dia rasa sepenuh hati ingin lakukan, rasa selesa dengan keputusan itu, dan mestilah tidak berkeras untuk melakukan perkara yang dia hajatkan sebelum Solat dilaksanakan. Jika perasaannya berubah, dia mesti tinggalkan perkara yang dia inginkan sebelum Solat, jika tidak dia tidak bertawakal kepada Allah, dan tidak ikhlas dalam meminta bantuan daripada Allah. Keikhlasan dalam meminta petunjuk daripada Allah bermaksud meninggalkan sepenuhnya kehendak diri sendiri."
Daripada huraian Imam Nawawi, dapat kita simpulkan bahawa Solat Istikharah dilakukan untuk menetapkan hati dan menguatkan tawakal kepada Allah.
Tambahan pula, Solat Istikharah bukan dilakukan dengan tidak semena-mena atau tanpa langkah-langkah awal. Selepas analisis, berpandukan Al-Quran dan As-Sunah, serta proses Istisyarah, barulah solat tersebut dilakukan dan keputusan diambil selepas itu. Akhir sekali, bertawakalah!
Berkaitan dengan mimpi pula, perlu dilihat adab-adab orang yang bersolat sebelum tidur. Mungkin mimpi itu petunjuk. Boleh jadi mimpi akan menyesatkan. Nauzubillah.
Kesimpulannya, soalan wajib atau tidak mengikut petunjuk dalam mimpi itu sudah menyalahi konsep. Hukum perbuatan tidak bergantung kepada mimpi, tapi, adalah bergantung kepada analisis daripada Al-Quran dan As-Sunah serta proses Istisyarah.
Jadi, betulkan konsep pemahaman kita terhadap Solat Istikharah. Mungkin solat ini sekadar solat sunat, tetapi kaitan dengan akidah umat Islam itu sendiri amat rapat seperti tawakal, keikhlasan dalam memohon pertolongan Allah, dan lain-lain.
Reference: Ustaz Hasrizal Abdul Jamil dan sahabat.
www.muttaqun.com 
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| Wednesday, 25-Jun-2008 00:54 |
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Sharing Info.....10 Insight of Choosing The Right Spouse
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10 Insights of Choosing The Right Spouse 
With the divorce rate over 50 percent, too many are apparently making a serious mistake in deciding who to spend the rest of their life with. To avoid becoming a "statistic," try to internalize these 10 insights.
1. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU EXPECT HIM/HER TO CHANGE AFTER YOU'RE MARRIED. 
The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, "You actually can expect people to change after their married... for the worst!"
So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.
2. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU FOCUS MORE ON CHEMISTRY THAN ON CHARACTER. 
Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome. "I'm in love" often means, "I'm in lust." Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person's character? Here are four character traits to definitely check for:
Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the right thing" is more important than personal comfort? Do I want to be more like this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?
Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give charity?
Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he's going to do?
Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?
Ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?
3. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE THE MAN/WOMAN DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT A MAN/WOMAN NEEDS MOST. 
Men and women have unique emotional needs, and more often than not, it is the man who just doesn't "get it." The unique need of a woman is to be loved-to feel that she is the most important person in her husband's life. The husband needs to give her consistent, quality attention.
4. YOU CHOOSE THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU DO NOT SHARE A COMMON LIFE GOALS AND PRIORITIES. 
There are three basic ways we connect with another person:
a. chemistry and compatibility
b. share common interests
c. share common life goal
Make sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart.
To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for," while you're single-and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you. This is the true definition of a "soul mate."
A soul mate is a goal mate two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.
5. YOU CHOOSE THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU GET INVOLVED SEXUALLY TOO QUICKLY. 
Sexual involvement before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues. Sexual involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions. Of all the studies done on divorce, sexual incompatibility is never cited as a main factor.
It is not necessary to take a "test drive in order to find out if a couple is sexually compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about sexual compatibility. Of all the studies done on divorce, sexual incompatibility is never cited as a main reason why people divorce.
6. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU DO NOT HAVE A DEEPER EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH THIS PERSON.
To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: "Do I respect and admire this person?"
This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?"
We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. You should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc.
Also ask: "Do I trust this person?" This also means, "Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I can rely on him/her?
7. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU CHOOSE SOMEONE WITH WHOM YOU DON'T FEEL EMOTIONALLY SAFE. 
Ask yourself the following questions:
-Do I feel calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person?
-Can I fully be myself and express myself with this person?
-Does this person make me feel good about myself?
Do you have a really close friend who does make you feel this way? Make sure the person you marry makes you feel the same way!
Are you afraid of this person in any way?
You should not feel you need to monitor what you say because you are afraid of how the other person will view it. If you're afraid to express your feelings and opinions openly, there's a problem with the relationship. Be on the look out for someone who is always trying to change you.
Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't feel the other person is trying to control you. Controlling behaviors are a sign of an abusive person. Be on the look out for someone who is always trying to change you. There's a big difference between "controlling" and "making suggestions." A suggestion is made for your benefit; a control statement is made for their benefit.
8. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU DON'T PUT EVERYTHING ON THE TABLE. 
Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment:
Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you?
Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person. If you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate. The two go hand in hand.
9. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE YOU USE THE RELATIONSHIP TO ESCAPE FROM PERSONAL PROBLEMS AND UNHAPPINESS. 
If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. If anything, marriage will exacerbate them. If you are not happy with yourself and your life, take responsibility to fix it now while you are single. You'll feel better, and your future spouse will thank you.
10. YOU PICK THE WRONG PERSON BECAUSE HE/SHE IS INVOLVED IN A TRIANGLE.
To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship. A person who hasn't separated from his or her parents is the classic example of triangulation. People can also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies, sports or money.
Be careful that you and your partner are free of triangles. The person caught in the triangle cannot be fully emotionally available to you. You will not be their number one priority. And that's no basis for a marriage.
[i]Source : http://al-ahkam.net/home/index.php?name=MDForum&file=viewtopic&t=33307[/i]
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| Saturday, 21-Jun-2008 13:13 |
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CuTe & FluFfy MUfFin...
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Cute Muffin In Pandan & Choco Flava (Size : S)
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Fluffy Muffin (End Product) (Size : M)
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Fluffy Muffin (End Product 2) (Size : M)
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Cute Muffin : S Size ( Pandan & Choc Flavour)
Cute Muffin : S Size Dalam Packaging Bekas Mengkuang
Fluffy Muffin : M Size
Basic Design ( Kalu nak adds on almond knib, chocolate rice, chocolate dip...bisa diatur)
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Looking for MUFFIN??
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Specification and Price List:
Muffin is availabe in 2 sizes:
a) 'S' Size : Cute Muffin (1 inch dia)
Available in various design of packaging  (nantikan our letest design on next entry...  )
b) 'M' Size : Fluffy Muffin ( 2 inch dia)
Packaging - Availabe in 4 oz dome shape
Flavour - Choco, Pandan & Yam
Intrested? Place your order now!!
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| Monday, 16-Jun-2008 16:04 |
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VVIP's and VIP's X-lusif Items...
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Di kebanyakan majlis kenduri kahwin, goodies utk VVIP's & VIP's Guest kuantitinya agak minima ... salunya untuk tetamu-tetamu yang special sahaja.. contohnya keluarga pengantin lelaki ke doto' datin ke YB ke ...
Dan lazimnya diletakkan di meja makan berhidang bersama-sama pengantin ketika kenduri kahwin berlangsung...
So...Intrested on our items? Place your order now!!
Call me for further info...  0126404381
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| Monday, 16-Jun-2008 14:04 |
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Goodies 4 Wedding Ceremony..
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Code : GW01 (Available In Various Colour)
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Code:GW02 (Lidi Silinder),GW03(Kotak Lidi), GW04 (Mengkuang)
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Code: GW05 (Beg)
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Specification & Price List :-
1) GW01 : Towel Mengkuang (min order : 100 pcs) (available in various colour)
: Selling Price is @ RM1.20 per unit 
2) GW02 : VVIP X-lusif Item - Bekas Lidi Silinder (L: 4 inch & Diameter : 3 inch) (min order : 20 pcs)
: Selling Price is @ RM12.80 per unit
3) GW03 : VIP X-lusif Item - Kotak Lidi (L : +- 3 inch, W: +- 3 inch, H: 1.5 inch) (min order : 20 pcs)
: Selling Price is @ RM11.30 per unit
4) GW04 : Bekas Mengkuang (L : 2.5 inch, W: 2.5 inch, H: 2 inch) (min order : 100 pcs)
: Selling Price is @ RM1.80 per unit
5) GW05 : VIP X-lusif Item - Lovely Bag (L : +- 3.5 inch, W: +-3.5 inch)(min order : 20 pcs)
: Selling Price is @ RM8.20 per unit
6) GW06 : Towel, Sudu & Garfu Mini Wrapped In Colourful Wrapper (min order : 100 pcs)
: Selling Price is @ RM1.50 per unit
* Pick Up Area : Gombak & Bandar Sri Damansara ...
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| Monday, 16-Jun-2008 08:23 |
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Goodies 4 Guest..
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Cenderahati untuk tetamu sudah menjadi kemestian dalam satu majlis... tak kira lah majlis akikah ke, cukur jambul ke, tunang ke, kahwin ke, kenduri doa selamat... skang ni dah macam-macam jenis goodies...dari tuala, muffin, cup cake, coklat dan macam-macam lagi..sampai pening kepala nak pilih
For me, yang paling penting cenderahati ni tak kira la yang kecik ke yang besar, yang mahal ke yang murah ke.. yang penting IKHLAS.. baru la berkat majlisnya ..
Kata orang-orang tua, kalu nak bagi orang bendanya biarlah SEMPURNA
IKHLAS & SEMPURNA...
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